The other day a friend and I were hanging out with a rather wild acquantence. He was describing his actvities of the night before. Being drunk, his activities were not the smartest and my friend just casually commented, "Just you wait a couple months from now some chick will be banging on your door wanting child support." His reply, "Oh God that would be a nightmare!" This got me to thinking. Inside I fumed to myself consider what it would like for her. You guys all just think of how bad it would be for you and complain when the girl makes you help with the child. Do you not think at all of what the girl has to go through? You guys are so selfish! Thinking through this I realized yet another major difference between guys and girls. If that scenario were to come true, they guy would be very upset. He would behave like a martyr and be an ass to the girl. He would think she was selfish and clingy and should just raise the kid on her own. This is not just that one guy, but most guys. I've seen it happen time and time again. But has the guy ever considered what it would be like to be in the girl's shoes? He's behaving just as difficultly as she is, but yet she still wants to work things out. The guy writes this off as clingy. But in reality is it clinginess or a mark of a superior species? The girl realizes for the child's sake that there needs to be parents. She also realizes that there is more to a relationship than feelings. All the guy cares about is how he feels and how hard it will be and how much he doesn't like the girl. The girl looks beyond all these facts, for she feels the same way, and tries to make it work anyway. She realizes that there is more to life then just getting her way and lays down everything she has dreamed of to try to make a guy realize the call of nature. Those hot headed guys think they are so much better, but when in reality they will always be the weaker, the ones who cannot stand pain and uncomfortableness and most of all wisdom. They instead think that this superior creature is one to take for granted, bang around, and make fun of. They are still living despite these actions because the woman realizes that the world also needs the men and that anilating them would be worthless.